Before you miss your blessing, consider that there is always another perspective you don't see. That situation or person is a vehicle to helping you become a better you. (in the natural and spiritual). God doesn't waste anything... He said that All Things are working together for your good, so before you get offended, disgruntled or decide to close the door on a potential blessing, seek what the Lord, is doing in this season or concerning this matter. Reasons Seasons and Lifetimes rings true, people come into our lives for a purpose and some things happen for a reason. We have to discern the two and know how to compartmentalize them and utilize the experience to our maximum. Common sense to you might not be common sense to someone else. (sorry even in regards to spiritual matters) Therefore pause, seek the Lord, exercise humility and remember to extend grace. It can go a long way and make a tight situation more palatable for all parties concerned.
Things to Consider:
A. God is helping you develop a thicker skin
B. God wants to take you to another level.
C. God needs you to be more flexible (especially concerning ministry)
D. He wants you to broaden your horizons.
E. God is taking you out of your comfort zone to set you apart
E. Maybe you asked God for patience, etc
F. Pressure is always applied to a Diamond
That rubbing might seem as a hard place right now, but soon you will see your growth and elevation, after being rubbed and pressure has been applied. Soon you will see that diamond in the rough has begun to shine forth brightly for the world to see. Daily we are being pressed and processed into the likeness and image of our King of Kings. The next time someone or something rubs you the wrong way, hold your head up high and tell the Lord Thank You.