I've come to learn that life is truly too short. We all are just mist and vapor. Here today and gone today. Don't waste time carrying crosses or assignments that aren't yours. You attempt to help someone because you think with your emotional self and consider, What would Jesus Do? However, without consulting the God of your spiritual self, you jump into a situation based on this non scriptural premise. (WWJD- It sounds good, but its not entirely scriptural)
How do you know that you have crossed a line?
At first things seem fine and harmonious, (that's how the enemy is) and then suddenly, the mask comes off. After its too late to have a change of heart, after you have left your job, after finding out you cant tell anyone to leave your home after 30days, after your life has been turned upside down all because you made a fleshly/emotional decision. Now you are frustrated and tied in stitches because their burden has illegally become your burden along with what you were assigned to carry. You are literally succumbing the pressures of what you in the flesh agreed to take on. Men are to always pray.
The Lesson to be learned
Don't make another decision without consulting God and seeking his direction. Sometimes we jump in to help others and God wanted them to fight and get out of their cocoon on their own. (Just them and God) Sometimes we Hinder another's progress.
Oh What Peace we often forfeit, oh what needless pains we bare, all because we do not carry everything to God in prayer.... When we Know Better we Grow Better.